Westie's Basic Ass Exchange Letter
Apr. 14th, 2026 06:04 pmOVERALL LIKES:
Trans Characters & Genderfuckery | Established Relationships | Rarepairs(+) | Polyamory | Non-Sexual Intimacy | Ace & Aro Headcanons | Queerplatonic Relationships | Fealty Kink | Identity Porn | Humor | Fairytale & Mythology AUs | Monsters & Supernatural Creatures | Vampires | Tentacles | Wings | Fangs & Claws | Body-Sharing | Feels About Having a Body | Body Modification as Self-Expression | Non-Consensual Body Modification as a Thing To Be Grappled With | Casual/Non-Sexual Nudity | Realistic & Loving Depictions of Fat/Trans/Disabled/Otherwise "Non-Normative" Bodies | taboo/"unhealthy" relationships that are nevertheless soft for those in them (including incest and underage) | 1st and 2nd Person POVs | Experimental Formats
ART LIKES:
Pin-Up Poses! | Cuddling! | Action Poses! | Casual Nudity | Haircare | Fun Clothes | Realistic Art | Cartoony Art | Symbolic or Abstract Art | Really Fucking Horny Art | "X-Ray" Details | Bara Art | Art that plays with scale and environments | Realistic & Loving Depictions of Fat/Trans/Disabled/Otherwise "Non-Normative" Bodies | Characters as Animals/Anthros/Mythical Creatures/Monsters | Characters Redesigns for a Fusion AU (as benders, as pokemon trainers, as Jedi, etc.) | I genuinely love lots of styles of art!
SEX/KINK LIKES:
Platonic/Non-Romantic Kink | Laughing During Sex | Genderplay | Gender-Affirming Kink | Body Worship | Fealty Kink (again) | Predicament Scenes | Bondage | Earned Praise | Masturbation | Selfcest | Voyeurism | Exhibitionism | Semi-Public Sex | Sneaky Public Kink | Erotic Rituals as a Normal Part of Society | BDSM AUs | "no, no, yes" Dynamics | Hypnosis | Body Modification for Horny Reasons | Monsterfucking | Alternate Erogenous Zones | Nonhuman Genitalia | Unrealistic Porn Physics | Watersports | Sex Toys | Magic/Cultivation Used for Horny Purposes | "Improper Use of [Canon Object]" Tags | Object Insertion | Un(der)-Negotiated Kink
摩西摩西
Apr. 14th, 2026 04:14 pmFrom my favorite singer, not a song this time but a game livestream (from last summer sometime). Unlike Liu Chang, Jiang Dunhao does not do livestreams on the regular (“I never know what to say”), so this is a bit of an exception. He’s playing a game called inZoi? which seems to be a kind of slice-of-life? in a city where they speak an annoyingly random language? and makes himself an avatar wearing one of his own typical striped shirts (with a lot of cute little “Nope!”s in English when he doesn’t like the options presented). It’s not all that exciting to watch, but like Liu Chang’s game livestreams, excellent for listening practice, since his narration reflects what’s happening on screen, plus the style of the game means there are a lot of everyday words coming up. (The first thing he does is go to the karaoke box on the game map, where he is somewhat appalled to find that his avatar sings really badly.)
(okay, I lied, here’s a song too, even though I think I’ve already posted this one: 掉了, just because it blows my mind every time.)
For work reasons, I came across this list of large cardinal properties (I don’t even know what cardinals are, other than cardinal-versus-ordinal, not counting the religious ones and the red birds) and found it extremely delightful. I know for math people, including those on my f-list, it must make actual sense, but I just like the existence of worldly cardinals, weakly and strongly inaccessible cardinals (need to apply this categorization to the local authorities, utilities companies, etc.), unfoldable cardinals, shrewd cardinals, almost and totally ineffable cardinals, ethereal cardinals, subtle cardinals, remarkable cardinals, almost high jump cardinals, super almost huge cardinals, and so on.
Antonia Forest fans may be amused to note that there’s a kid called Juki at the Saturday juku; also another boy called Mokuren, a very pretty name which means “magnolia” (I haven’t seen the characters but presumably it’s 木蓮, although these days you never know). Some of the modern kira-kira names I find too much, as in the previous post, but at least it’s more interesting than everyone being named Hiroshi or Daisuke or Keiko or Miyuki (depending on the generation).
Still working my way through the Chinese edition of The People at No. 1 Siwei Street; the dialogue is very cute in Chinese. Seriously confusing myself because there’s a character who is mostly just called the landlady, 房东, but because I know there’s a landlady character, I keep looking at 大家 and wanting to read it that way (“landlord/-lady” in Japanese, “everyone” in Chinese). Also I can’t believe I now know how to say both “pillowfriend” and “fuckbuddy” in Chinese (床伴 and 炮友, if anyone cares); clearly I have made some fundamental mistake somewhere in my self-guided Chinese education.
More silly Chinese: People online using on-the-spot loan words written in hanzi, like 哦莫 (Korean “omo,” kind of “oy vey”) or 摩西摩西 (Japanese “moshi-moshi,” telephone hello doubling as “hey you, wake up there”).
When I need spare names for original Chinese characters (I mean, people, not letters) I have a secret weapon: searching for chorus or orchestra rosters in Chinese. The former usually separates members by voice part and the latter often comes with photos, making it easy both ways to check name gender, and there are lots and lots of names to mix-and-match first and last. Also interested that Western orchestra instruments seem to have multiple translations: for the contrabass I’ve mostly seen 低音提琴, low violin, but also 倍大提琴 which is literally “double bass” (or “double cello,” anyway). Also the 法国号, French horn, which also goes by 圆号, round horn; the cor anglais seems to be literally the 英国管 as well. The harp is 竖琴, vertical-stringed-instrument (琴 is the word for “zither” but can refer to anything with strings, the violin family as above is various 提琴s and even rock guitarists and bass players will refer casually to their axes as 琴 as well). Timpani are 定音鼓, fixed-tone drums.
Visit to Arima, a hot spring spa with centuries of history as a tourist destination (possibly millennia; the original hot spring visitors were gods, if you follow the local legend). Lots of cherry blossoms, because it’s in the mountains and they bloom later; steep hills everywhere (my knees are not in good shape right now and the hills were a challenge; does anybody have any good exercise ideas that are easy on the knees?); the “Jealousy Spring” said to puff out steam whenever a beautiful woman walks by; a local train using rolling stock from sixty years ago; soda-water senbei, which you’re supposed to eat within five seconds (literally) after they come off the griddle, because the first bite is chewy and after that they get crisp (they taste like old-fashioned fortune cookies); and of course the hot springs, notable for their copper-colored water, like bathing in a mud puddle but actually very clean and soothing (see here, not where we stayed but the photos are nice). (No wonder I’ve read at least one murder mystery in which the Arima waters are used to conceal an exsanguinated victim.)
Photos: Way too many cherry blossoms, mostly from Arima; I still maintain that they’re not my favorite flowers, but they sure are photogenic. Two cats: Koron-chan with an elegant little halo, and an offended stray at a safe distance. Some maples: the red leaves are not actually painted on the wall, they just look like it. Message on a mailbox that cracked me up. A bounty of kumquats going to waste because they’re growing on the train side of the railway fence, meaning nobody can pick them (I suppose the railway company could, but logistically it wouldn’t be easy). An alleyway in Arima and a temple entrance which looks like it’s off in the mountains somewhere but is actually right in the middle of my large city.
Be safe and well.
"no matter what, her smile came shining through" (meredith edwards)
Apr. 13th, 2026 10:53 pmjust an adorable german shepherd befriending some kittens with a little help from mom
Fanfiction: "Viscountess Eeville and the Spotted Shumils" (Ascendance of a Bookworm)
Apr. 13th, 2026 06:26 amChapters: 1/1
Fandom: 本好きの下剋上 - 香月美夜 | Honzuki no Gekokujou | Ascendance of a Bookworm Series - Kazuki Miya
Rating: General Audiences
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Relationships: Ferdinand & Rozemyne (Ascendance of a Bookworm)
Characters: Myne (Ascendance of a Bookworm), Ferdinand (Ascendance of a Bookworm)
Additional Tags: One Shot, Humor, Culture Shock, Worldbuilding, References to 101 Dalmatians, Blanket Permission, and in the best and truest tradition of AoaB people sit in a room and discuss things
Summary: An animated movie song lands Rozemyne in Ferdinand's lecture room for more literary culture shock. As usual, everything she knows about storytelling is wrong — including the idea that everything she knows is wrong.
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itch.io Charity bundle & mini-TTRPG list
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Highlight includes:
A Visit To San Sibilia ($10): "a solo journaling game in which you roleplay a character chronicling their visit to the city of San Sibilia. The city manifests itself differently to every visitor." It has a strong invisible Cities vibe.
Rebels of the Outlaw Wastes ($15): "A rock-n-roll retro-dystopian tabletop roleplaying game fueled by stickers! IndieCade 2023 Nominee for innovation in Tabletop Design."
Anomaly Hunters ($10CAD): "a monster hunting tabletop roleplaying game, within which you play as the protagonist of an investigative reality TV show that tries to find weird creatures and get rid of them"
II.Tabletop RPG I have Read: Dimension Travel
Troika! : a surreal multiverse travel trpg based on the Fighting Fantasy gamebook 'system', Example character option: Fellow of the Sublime Society of Beef Steaks, Workshop Elf
Between the Skies is a cosmic fantasy game of travel and exploration across endless worlds. It has a massive number of tables to help you generate fantasy setting details. The first version is free on itch.io.
Disparateum is a trpg in progress that let you explore different worlds and dimensions through overlapping literal pieces of paper
"a little sunlight and room to grow was all she needed" (meredith edwards)
Apr. 12th, 2026 11:37 pm♥ compost added to the rock garden, fence replaced to keep dogs from trampling my crocuses, many minutes spent sitting in the sunshine admiring the spring bulbs and bleeding hearts; gently cleared the side and patio gardens again to make sure that everything that needs sun is getting it
♥ dahlias watered, remaining cannas into holding pots, refrigerator bulbs into porch planters
♥ circle garden
♥ pansies installed in the roadside planter, sedum soldiers on, new lilies coming in next to the old
♥ got out the first outdoor watering can of the season; ordered a new rake (the head on my metal one keeps falling off) and replacement wheel for the garden cart (allegedly a no-flat tire, totally true as long as I put air in it three times a day)
♥ dog accompanied me on compost mission that ended at the library where we learned two important things: there is now a "doggie stick library" out back where you can take a stick for your pup (no need to return), and also solar lights on the trail between the library and the church which are rainbow-colored
Clay's Ark by Octavia E. Butler (1984)
Apr. 12th, 2026 09:24 pmThis was the last-published book in the Patternist series, but the third one I've read, as I'm following the suggested chronological reading order. I was warned that in this reading order it's totally opaque how this book relates to the others, which certainly is the case! The only apparent connection is Clay Dana, a minor character from Mind of My Mind who is said in this book to have invented interstellar travel using his psionic abilities. But the other characters don't seem to be aware of the telepathic Patternists as a group, so it seems that in the intervening decades they've managed to continue influencing society without fully revealing themselves.
Reading it basically as a stand-alone, the book seems to be about what it means to be human. It questions the dichotomy of human and monster, as the "ordinary" humans of the lawless desert prove more brutal and violent than the infected half-aliens are. The characters assume that allowing the pathogen to spread across Earth would be a bad thing, but when you see what human society is becoming, you wonder if altering more people's nature might be an improvement.
I felt that the book was too long, which is surprising at just over 200 pages. The characters are strongly written (as expected from Butler) but I think there might be too many of them, and sometimes the same events are needlessly reiterated from multiple POVs. I also had trouble with the level of violence. I didn't think it was gratuitous since it seemed necessary for the book to make its thematic points as I understood them; violence is just hard for me to read and there's a lot of it here, including rape and the constant threat of rape.
It'll be interesting to see how my perspective changes once I've read the whole series and seen what readers knew of the Patternist universe when these prequels were published. Worth noting that I will indeed be reading Survivor, a book in the series that's been out of print for ages because Butler apparently hated it. Very curious about that one.
Garden pre-PRE(?)-planning. Or something.
Apr. 12th, 2026 04:52 pmWe just spent a while sifting through some seed listings on the Halifax Seed website (and I mostly kept myself from looking at tomato seeds, since we are not growing any tomatoes from seed*).
*I really wish there were some indication of what tomato varieties will be offered as seedlings, and also wish I knew if the different plant nurseries tend to offer similar varieties of tomato seedlings or not. (ALSO-also, we need to decide whether to focus on trying a few different types to see how we like them vs. focusing on a few determinate plants with the intention of just processing most/all of the fruit into sauce.)
(The seedling sale from a relatively nearby nonprofit that I'm hoping to make it to does offer a short list of potential varieties of things, with the caveat of "These are all the options that we have intended to grow but as all farmers and gardeners know, not every crop pans out. We apologize in advance if some of these options are unavailable, or not ready." For tomatoes, it says "Roma, Brandywine, Scotia +more! / Tropical Sunset, Sungold, Red Torch +more!")
But as noted yesterday, we don't plan to put tomatoes in the actual planter anyway. Thoughts for the actual planter so far: ( thoughts + variety notes )
Media Roundup: Mini Update on Reading Goals
Apr. 12th, 2026 11:06 amBut now that I am thinking about my theme I kinda want to watch another crossdressing girl drama – those are so fun and comforting.
And now for some thoughts on recent media. It’s been a bit because I was busy and sick – but I’m doing better now.
NewsPrints by Ru Xu —Sometimes I read a thing that it seems like I should be really into and I'm just like "This is nice" That's how I feel about this book. It's got a crossdressing girl, cool diesel punk tech, found family! I'm not sure why I don't love it. (I started reading the squeal but it was somewhat darker and I didn’t really want to deal with that.)
Justice Society of America vol 1 and 2 by Geoff Johns, Mikel Janín et al. —I ended up reading this for convoluted reasons: I read Stargirl and the Lost Children because it had an appearance by a minor character that I was curious about, and then I wanted to know what happened next, which is told here. I would have liked even more lost children. But really the problem with this is that its too much story for the space, everything happens very fast and there is not enough time to get to know the characters. Probably I’m expected to come in already knowing and caring about some of them, but since I didn’t it really just felt like no one got much space to be interesting.
I Shall Never Fall in Love by Hari Conner—This queer regency romance is billed as “inspired by Jane Austen and queer history” but you could just as easily call it “a queer retelling of Emma”. I enjoyed it! I love how expressive the faces are. Also I really appreciated the facts and references in the back. And It’s super cool that all of the clothing is based on existing surviving garments or historical fashion plates!
The Unbeatable Squirrel Girlvol 1-2 by Ryan North, Erica Henderson, et al— this continues to be very fun! Featuring such delights as dinosaurs and a zine issues!
Nezha (2019)— I watched this Chinese animated movie with my group watch discord. So I generally I write up notes on each item for these posts a day or two after finishing it so it will be fresh in my mind (Then I wait until I have several things so I can post them all together) But this time I had to run off after watching Nezha and now its been a week so I don’t remember this as well as I’d like. It was fun though.
Content Note traumatic childbirth, gross bodily fluids
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Apr. 12th, 2026 05:22 pmSo, it was Louise's hafla last night, aka the 'Hob al Raqs' Hafla. I wonder if I can get a copy of the running list up here? Hm... but it's very big, so here is a link to the pdf instead.
After having been sick with nerves and dreading it for two days prior, the nerves cleared up on the day, and I gradually got ready by ironing my veil (for the Nawwarat group dance) and practicing putting on a dramatic blue eye make up look from YouTube.
(Did you know that you can use cellotape on your face to get a sharp wing to your eyeshadow? I didn't. But I do now.)( Read more... )
DH of course, who turned up with two huge cameras, (one for video and one for stills) was very popular and everyone wanted to pose and show off their sparkling outfits. There will be much excitement when he posts the finished photos to a friends-locked group on the web. I'm looking forward to that too. He is a treasure and everyone knows it :)
PS. The other lady from my class who said she might do a solo did not in fact do a solo despite being objectively much better than me. I don't understand - surely the point of practicing a dance is to perform it?
PPS. I wonder when I will feel as though I have the right to use the dance name I picked out? I mean I'm not good and I'm certainly not professional, but I am up there performing. Does that make me a dancer yet or is there another trial you have to pass first?
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Apr. 12th, 2026 09:05 amIf you'd forced me to describe what I expected from this show, I would have hazarded something like 'Tana French book, adapted as a ballet?' Not at ALL correct. The cold case is not a mystery, not full of twists: we've got one detective, one suspect, one victim, one piece of land (and one ambiguously metaphorical donkey.) The ninety-minute show begins with a series of projected documents explaining the history of Irish Land Dispute Murders before establishing a more-or-less regular pattern: short interrogation scenes between the detective and the suspect, interspersed with bursts of emotion and memory, some dramatized and some in dance.
Sometimes -- often -- this worked extraordinarily well. The land under dispute is represented, personified, by a dancer in a ghillie suit who slithers in and out of the central interrogation/morgue table* like a giant muppet, or the Swamp Thing and dances a violently romantic duet with the suspect -- and it could have looked so silly, as I'm describing it it sounds silly, and instead it was haunting and evocative, perfectly elucidating the narrative themes of the show while also just being a gripping and powerful piece of performance.
*remarkable piece of set design, that table; afterwards we all agreed it was the hardest-working table in show business
Other times, the balance felt a little off; the dialogue would tell us something and then a duet would be danced and I'd think, well, you didn't need to tell us both ways, one or the other would have worked fine. Or I'd start to admire the dialogue for its spareness in suggesting the complexity of a dynamic -- who's from here, who isn't, who has rights to land, who doesn't, what's worth punishing on behalf of the community, what isn't -- and then it say it again more explicitly and I'd be like, well, okay, but you didn't have to. What I'm saying is that I think the show probably could have been just as powerful at sixty minutes as at ninety minutes. But I wasn't at all unhappy to be there for ninety minutes! I was compelled the whole time! If the show sometimes told me things about the situation more times or more explicitly than I needed to hear them, it did an admirable job of not telling me what to think about them, and trying to decide what I did think about them left me plenty to occupy my mind.
A lot of the creative team seem to have a history with Punch Drunk and have worked on Sleep No More explicitly, and it was interesting for me to compare/contrast -- the style of expressive choreography is notably similar, but Sleep No More is a piece of theater that has almost no dialogue, that draws a lot of its power from being oblique and ambiguous to the point of fault. Finding that exact right point of convergence for dance and theater seems to be an ongoing challenge and point of interest for the people coming out of the Punch Drunk school and I'm very curious to see other explorations of it.
32 days to frost free
Apr. 12th, 2026 01:54 amI am not a neat or particularly organized person but it gets to a point where even I'm like: the next pile of stuff I trip over is getting thrown away.
they still need more light, they've definitely outgrown the two they were barely crowding under to begin with, but I ordered another one of those super-powered sansi floor lamps. it won't improve the walking situation, but here we are.
"gay marriage, or as I call it, marriage" / the chiondoxa are blooming
Apr. 11th, 2026 10:55 pmI also dragged the bags of compost Marci helped me acquire from a local farm out back, even though I haven't decided where to put it yet (everywhere could benefit, really, I might drive by again tomorrow and see if they have more), packed all of the outdoor Christmas greens off to the garage in preparation for the dahlia* move, and got some pansies for the road garden.
*I lifted the lights again on Friday, but they're growing through the shelf now and that's not good for them. Also not gonna lie, when I said there'd be space on the shelf below I forgot that they get wider as well as taller. Marci and I brainstormed ways to get some of them outside early, but I think it's going to come down to more shelves and another light.
...In my defense, I genuinely did not expect them to sprout A WEEK AFTER PLANTING.
Anyway, my point is, I mixed some yogurt with blueberries for my evening snack (don't worry it'll be chocolate and cookies later, this is just the pre-snack where I get some nutrients before loading up on sugar and caffeine to keep myself awake long enough to study) and left it in the kitchen, so every bite I have to get up from the sofa and walk around to make sure all my muscles still work.
Also, today was one of those Productive Days.** I'm not saying every day should be a day where lots of Tasks Get Checked Off, but occasionally such a day comes along and I always wonder, is this just part of the cycle or did I do something to facilitate it? Some combination of sleep (ha ha not today) or herbs, that brain supplement
(I got the white one (amazon link), which makes me feel like I have one of those Gusu Lan winter cloaks that appear in all the Tencent winter art for MDZS. It's delightful. Also suprisingly stain resistant: I didn't even try to keep Daphne's snacks off of it (life is short, let the dog have a bone... although I will admit I didn't realize how lucky I was that my last two dogs preferred chewing on clean chirpy cat toys) and so far the white fluffiness prevails.)
**Wrote stuff, paid stuff, updated stuff, did laundry and research?! Moved the garden bridge out of winter storage. It does make me slightly less anxious on days when I'm like, "no thank you I can not," because I know days where I'm all, "let me do a dozen things real quick" will come around, but think how useful it would be if it were predictable.

















